Monday, January 21, 2013

Thanks MLK!

Today was a great day with the kids.  Just a typical Monday in January.  A school holiday in honor of Martin Luther King Jr.  (Man am I rusty at writing - a writer writes, right?)  My plan was to take it easy in the morning, find somewhere to go out to lunch, followed by ice skating for an hour in Potsdam and wind up the day with dance class for Jordan.  I thought I would figure something out for dinner - somewhere along the way.  I pulled a chuck roast out of the freezer and figured I could stick it in the crock pot sprinkled with Lipton Soup Mix. 

Well things started to go a stray when Jordan came down with a case of the throw-ups late Sunday afternoon.  It has been going around, Jake had it last week.  I wasn't surprise, just disappointed it had to happen then - as if there is really ever a good time.  She had a few rough hours, followed by intermittent sleep, until I finally talked her into slipping into her own bed at about 3am.  We both must have slept hard, because we both woke up between 7a-8a, feeling fairly normal.  Without the pressures of a manic Monday, we both worked on coming to with coffee and water (she wanted her apple juice but I denied her until I was sure she was really better).  I talked her into taking it slow with a few rice crispies.  Stephen fed Jake his morning cereal, and bagel.  He wanted another bagel, and when I indicated he could have another if he got it himself.  He helped himself to bag of bagels, and when two halves popped up he offered me one.  He said, "I put two (halves) in in case you wanted one mom."  I accepted gratefully, and wolfed it down.

Shortly after Stephen left for work, I remembered the inauguration was to happen today.  Having no idea when it happen, I flicked on the TV to the AM news station.  This is VERY atypical in this house.  Like never.  My kids actually have rarely seen network television - maybe the Macy's day parade, that's about it - ever.  I made the exception to the rule for this time because I thought it would be a neat opportunity to follow up on a dialogue the three of us have been having since the Fall's election season.  On our way home from church many Sundays, the news would be covering the latest in election news which would spur questions and discussion among the three of us.  There had been some re-enforcement in school - Jake's class did a mock election and he 'voted' for Obama. 

We let the TV run with its imagery of the Mall, the Whitehouse, and other symbolics in DC.  We talked about the Capital, the President, the Vice President, the Presidents Wife, his daughters and whole lot more.  There were times they were captivated, other times were ambivalent as we played battleship, and Jordan wrote cards.  I encouraged their attention back to the programming at certain times, other times I let them play.  Watching the ceremonies with the kids gave me a great sense of patriotism that I haven't felt in a long time.  I hoped they gained even just a small part of a vision of our country, its history, its future and their role in it. 

We facetime'd Aunt Julie & Fiona - she is a cutee!  We also Facetimed Grandma Alice.

We made a mobile for baby Fiona.  We also ate Oatmeal and Blueberries somewhere around mid morning.  Jordan proudly pointed out later that both of those were her ideas, and good ones at that.  We kept working through the list of things we all had made for ourselves.  Jake played with his trains, Jordan & I finished the mobile.  Jake & I took a few minutes to learn his new camera from christmas.  I still didn't get the flash working.  That'll have to be next time. 

Somewhere in their I found a great recipe for slow cooker chuck roast, caste iron skillet biscuits & bar chocolate chips cookies.  I nearly finished up the laundry by the time I tucked them into bed.  We also spent 30 minutes outside (no longer because it was 10 degrees out), and bought girl scout cookies from the MacWilliams.

Busy, busy day - and filled with none of the things I had anticipated.  We collectively blew off dance class under the auspicious of Jordan being 'sick'.  In actuality, I rather think that none of us really wanted the hustle bussel of going anywhere today.  She was ok to stay home and do her nails (another thing on her list).

Very grateful for the time we were given together today.  As I pulled Jacob up to the top of the driveway on the tabbagon we got for xmas this year, it felt like I was stepping back in time to the days when I pulled him up there as a two year old.  Time slips by so quickly.  I heard a news story this week about how our memory warps over time and as we recall memories they change over time.  I guess it is that along with all the sorrowful feelings of the time with the kids slipping away far to fast that is motivating me to make these posts once again.  It is scary how difficult it is to commit words to the screen, but I'd rather believe that it is a healthy way of dealing with the inputs from today, and to hold on to them for the future.  I hope that I can look back on this post, some day, without regret and sorrow.  Rather absorb the words and the description of the great day we spent together when Jordan was 5, Jacob was 7 and I was thirtysomething (:)).  Trying to keep a snapshot in my mind of this wonderful day for enjoyment in the years to come.

LJP

Monday, January 25, 2010

Save St. Lawrence County Jobs

Tell Gov Paterson and our legislators New York cannot abandon St. Lawrence County.  Take a minute for St. Lawrence County’s future, and sign the petition here… http://www.saveourprison.com/

 

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

2010 Election

To my friends,

 

I sent the following announcement this afternoon via my monthly legislator’s report to towns.  I wanted you also to receive the news directly.  After much reflection and consideration, I have decided not to seek re-election for a second term (as District 7 St. Lawrence County Legislator).  My reasons are of a personal nature, and I do not wish to provide specifics.  I do want to express what an honor it has been to serve as your legislator.  I have enjoyed getting to know so many of you, and the relationships that have been forged.  I have enjoyed tackling the tough issues that have come before us, and am most proud of our progress on information technology both at the County and in the community at large.  I have worked hard to listen to your concerns, as well as act on them when possible.  I sincerely thank all those who have supported me, especially my family.  Many challenges lay before us in 2010 and I plan to serve fervently through the end of this year.  By announcing now, it is my anticipation that others will have ample time to position themselves as viable candidates for the Fall election.

 

 

Laura J Perry

 

Home/Office:

28 Cassidy Rd.

Parishville, NY 13672

 

Voice:    (315) 265-4233

Mobile: (315) 267-6857

Fax:         (718) 374-6549

Email:     laurap@slic.com

 

Saturday, December 26, 2009

pictures from Christmas

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Many of you sent greetings and well wishes for yesterday.  We thank you for those.  Some of you suspected we would be having some fun.  You were right!  I thought I’d send these along while they were fresh.  I think the pictures capture ‘some’ of the energy we had going on here yesterday.  We also have about an hour of video – for anyone that would like a copy, just let me know.

 

Merry Christmas and take care!  Love, Laura, Steve, Jacob & Jordan.

 

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Sunday, December 6, 2009

November 2009 Update

To view the November 2009 Photo Album, click here.

I know I'm getting this out a few days late, but I've been working through my list of To Do's and this was down there on the list. The ranking was not because I'm not anxious to share some news, but rather I've been trying to time the delivery of this update with the mailing of our xmas cards. Consider it mission accomplished, and now on to the news of the month.

First, a word on the weather. In a word - incredible! I think we had more sunshine in November than we did in July. Even though we had a brief visit from the white stuff, the balance of the month was warm, sunny and very pleasant. I felt as though we were on borrowed time all month long, and at any moment the tide would change but it didn't. Poor Jake thinks this is a cruel joke. He can't wait to slide down the driveway, shovel snow and go snowmobiling. But so far there has only been a few flakes here and there - nothing to shake a shovel at. Mom secretly says "YEAH!"



From November 2009


Happy Birthday to Daddy!  Stephen turned 40 this past month.  We had just a quiet celebration with the kids and a night out for the parents (we got a babysitter!).  I know he wasn't looking forward to this one, but he's taken it in stride.  In exchange, he took hunting season on with great enthusiasm and committment.  He slipped out into the woods behind our house as often as possible.  He left most Saturday and Sunday mornings by 5:30 am, to return a few hours later.  He did the same at the end of those weekend days.  Unfortunately, his time spent in the woods did not produce any venison in the freezer for this year - but then again there is always next year.



From November 2009


Grammi Page dropped in for Grandparents' Day at Jacob's Head Start Class.  It was good to see her, and Jacob was tickled.  He continues to thrive in his class.  The teacher's reports home are good, and the discussions at his parent teacher conference were very encouraging.  Any areas where he needs work are on par with his peers.  It appears that my earlier concerns about Jacob dealing well in a classroom setting are unfounded, at least at this point.  This is a big relief, and a huge joy to see him in school.  He is learning his letters, and he actually sat with me this weekend to work on a cutting and pasting project the teacher asked us to complete.  This is amazing improvement and very exciting. 

Daddy made a special visit to Jacob's class during his Thanksgiving week vacation.  Part of the Head Start program is to incorporate as many field trips as possible.  They ask parents if there are any places they can suggest for field trips.  We worked out the details so the kids could have a UPS field trip without leaving the school grounds.  Stephen actually dressed in his browns and drove the UPS truck to the school - while he was on vacation!  The kids toured the truck and scanned their own packages.  Stephen gave a little speal about safety and everyone got a huge kick out of it.  We sent the picture to the newspaper, and they printed it so now we are all enjoying the fruits of the positive press. 

Thanksgiving was a huge success.  We stayed here, and Cathy, Darrell, Kalyn and Uncle Mike came to us.  I cooked the best turkey we've ever had, and all the other fixin's were good as well.  Mike really liked the butternut squash 'pudding', definately a remake for the future.  Jacob loved Uncle Darrell's macaroni and cheese.  It was good to see everyone and we had a nice time.  I didn't take any pictures of our dinner because I was too busy cooking it.  I'll have to remember that next time. 



From November 2009


We wrapped up the month with a visit to Santa's workshop in Wilmington (North Pole), New York.  It is about 1 1/2 hrs drive, on the side of Whiteface Mountain.  For those who don't remember, we first visited the old guy's workshop when Jacob was 8 weeks old.  I convinced Stephen we had to go because it would be a good family tradition for us to adopt.  At the time, we were completely unimpressed and thought we'd never go again.  Well times change and our vantage point changes as we begin to see the world through our kids eyes.  With just eight weeks experience, we were nothing more than DINK's with an infant.  With a few years and a second child under our belts, I would say we were better equipped to appreciate such an experience.  And Jacob is too!  He was thuroughly impressed with the reindeer, the roller coaster, the animal characters in the show, and SANTA!  He played it cool afterwords, but he dealt with the meeting of Santa with excitement and enthusiasm.  He practiced his list before hand, and then delivered when the time was right.  Jordan took the whole experience in with keen observation.  She is so tuned in to what is going on and what she should be doing.  She followed her brother up to Santa and sat on the opposite knee with no fear or hesitiation.  She was glad to be there.  "As long as Jacob is there what could be wrong with it."  She loved the rides and all the excitement.  We had a few moments of agnst in line with Jacob, but we managed through it and had a great time overall.

We are all holding Jim Roth in our prayers these days.  He is battling a long, hard fight with cancer and congestive heart failure.  He is currently in a nursing home where grandma and others are watching over him.  The miles between us and them makes times like these difficult, but we want everyone to know they are in our thoughts and prayers.

Take care of each other this holiday season.  We will be spending time here and with family.  Santa's helpers have been working steadily to make this a fantastic xmas for the Perry kids. 



From Drop Box

Oh I almost forgot 'Pointy'.  We've been blessed with a new xmas season tradition.  Grammi Page imparted this little Santa helper which the kids & I affectionately named 'Pointy'.  Pointy is Santa's little informant in the days leading up to xmas.  Legend has it that Pointy flies back to Santa each night to report on their trials and tribulations.  When the kids wake up, they never know where Pionty landed and the challenge is to be the first to find Pointy.  We started this little ritual on Nov 27th.  That is nearly 30 nights of flying and hiding.  It has turned into quit the challenge indeed for mom and dad who have forgotten about Pointy before going to bed on several occasions (already).  This means somebody has to get up in the middle of the night to deal with Pointy.  You can imagine all the found thoughts of grandma we are having at 2am.  Actually, it is worth it because the kids are definately into it - and in fact Jordan runs around with eyes wide as saucers saying "Puoitee" "Puoitee".  The other day I was scolding her for something, and I could see her flashing her eyes over my shoulder to where Pointy was - just to see if he was watching her.  So cute, melt your heart!  THANKS GRAMMI!

To view the November 2009 Photo Album, click here.

Wednesday, November 18, 2009

Grand Canyon of Pa., Science Museum in Syracuse, Get together (16 photos), by Laura Perry


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Saturday, October 31, 2009

September & October 2009 Update

Hello after a while! I was remiss in getting an update completed last month. Thanks to all those who let me know they were looking for the update in September. We were bogged down with a bunch of stuff that kept me distracted from the things that are important. With all that behind us, I'm glad to be back and pleased to share the following two month update.

To view the September 2009 photo album, click here.

To view the October 2009 photo album, click here.

September was a particularly tough month emotionally for ol' ma as Jacob headed off to school. The weeks leading up to the start of school was a very intense time as I worried over new clothes, shoes, book bags, supplies, and anything I could think of that would make the start of school a smooth transition. I just wanted him to have a good start, and I felt powerless in being able to control that. When it was all said and done, Jacob was more than ready. He jumped on the bus the first day and hasn't looked back yet. I hardly get a kiss good-bye each morning, as he hears the bus make the corner of our road. He is mezmorized as it backs into our driveway, and I have to hold him back as he waits impatiently for it to come to a stop. After the first couple of days, my next worry was that he would decide he had school tackled and would be ready for the next thing. I figured he would wake up one morning and tell me he is done with school, and was ready to play outside for the day. That day hasn't come, and I pray it never does.

His teachers are fantastic. Both are very enthusiastic and professional, just what Jacob needs. They have been helping us deal with his (shall we say) "enthusiasm" in life. Head start encourages parent involvement in the classroom, so Jordan & I are visiting his class room each week. It's great for all of us, as I get to see how he is at school, Jordan gets to play with the big kids, and Jacob gets to show off for me. He is so excited when we get there. He introduces me to all of his friends every time I get there, then he shows me their toys or his favorite book or how he plays the computer.

He has made big strides since the start of school. He will sit 'criss cross applesauce, hands in your applesauce', to listen to a story. He is holding a pencil better, and his cutting is improved. He taught us the poem they say before meals, which we have now incorporated into our pre-meal routine. He has also taught us several songs. If you ask him about school, he blanks out. If you just listen to him as the day and evening progresses, he shares endlessly what they have done throughout the day. There are other more subtle things that I see as changes in his daily activities. Unfortunately, he has picked up a series of colds and infections since the start of school. He has had a chronic runny nose and cough, with two rounds of antibiotics to combat it. This is no fun for him, or the people around him (especially in these days of H1N1 awareness). Head start has definately been a good home, and a good start for Jacob this school year.

Jordan continues to shock and amaze us with her verbal skill development. She is nearly talking in full sentances. The enunciation can be a little foreign to the casual listener, but the trained ear can make out her intentions without any difficulty. If I can't get it, Jacob tells me what she is saying. She is like a sponge when it comes to watching Jacob. If he does it, she is one step behind trying to do it just as good. She wants to push the stroller, ride the bike, wear the back pack, open the door, sit on the chair, go on the potty (more about that in a minute), put on the shoe, run as fast, dance as good, sing as loud, read the book, color the picture, etc... just like Jacob! If you watch her, when he is in the room - you see she has her eyes on him without straying.

About the potty - she started telling me she had to 'go potty' in September. I didn't believe her at first, but to pacify her I started putting her on the big potty. When she started peeing, and wanted to keep doing it - I resurrected the potty chair from the basement. She quickly learned how to back up to it and sit down under her own power. Now she does it with ease and great frequency. We haven't gone to pull-ups or training pants, mainly because I don't want to jinx it. But with great regularity she goes on the potty voluntarily 2-3x each day (#1 & 2!). She especially wants to do it, when Jacob does it. Big surpirse!

We are pretty much settled in for the season to come. With Halloween now come and gone, it'll be onto Thansgiving and Christmas. The gardens have been tucked in, and all the wood Stephen cut and split is out of the forest. Of course, there is more he wants to do, but we all feel good about where we sit as the winter comes on. The woodshed is full, the root cellar has potatoes, onions, & apples. The freezer will soon have a side of beef. All this will help get us through the long winter. We have plans to be here for Thanksgiving, and plans to travel WNY at the first of the year.

Stephen turns 40 in just 9 days. This is a big one for him. He's remembering what he used to think about people in their 40's. It happens to all of us one day - good thing I still have A LOT more time before it happens to me :) He is trying to find some time for hunting, with no success to date. He bought a lifetime license, along with buying one for Jacob - so I'm hoping we get something back before too long!

That's about all for now. We shared some good times at both The Adirondack and The Most museums in September & October. There are pictures in the albums for everyone to get glimpses of our visits. Take care and we love you!

Thursday, August 27, 2009

August 2009 Update

To view August's photo album click here!

August can only be described as a whirl wind. The weather gave us a break which renewed our enthusiasm for summertime activities like going to the beach, swimming, boating, picnicing, etc. and we worked extremely hard to squeeze all of those things in.

From August 2009


We had a very nice visit with Jacob and Jordan's grandparents from Florida. Grammi Alice and Bill Knapp stayed with us the better part of three weeks. This gave the kids lots of time to show off their 'real' selves - night & day. J&J loved greeting them in the morning, and kissing them before they went to bed. They showed off at swimming lessons, and got treated to ice cream in the park. Jacob spent the day with Bill, Mike Perry and Grammi Alice in Ogdensburg and he loved it. The report back was that he was a very well behaved little boy the whole day (Mommy wants to know why he can't be like that all the time!!) Grammi cooked for the kids several nights when I had to leave for meetings. This was a big help and I think everyone enjoyed the time together.

From August 2009


Simultaneous with Bill & Alice's visit, Stephen's campaign to run for office in his union local began to heat up. He is running as a trustee, on a slate of six other candidates. They are seeking a clean sweep of the incumbant administration. The decision to run was not made lightly, but once agreed he became 100% committed. I am helping where I can and offering support when asked. The guys were interested in utilizing the web to get the message out, so I helped set up a blog and email mailing list. If interested, you can check it out at www.membersforchange687.blogspot.com. Nominations occur on Sept 8 and campaigning goes on all month. The election is in October by mail in ballot. Wish us luck, as they are going to need it!

Our gardens took on a whole new look once we installed 7' 'deer gaurd' fencing. I think Stephen took pity, because he independantly went to Agway and spent $160 on the stuff. I was skeptical and not sure that was what we should do. But I have to say the stuff has been worth every penny. Granted it'll be a long time before we grow $160 worth of produce, but the fencing has kept the critters out and the plants have florished. With renewed interest, I planted several lettuces, radishes, & beets - in time for a Fall harvest, which should be really nice. I read an article by a local gardening expert in the past Sunday's paper, and she verified that this has been one of the worst gardening seasons on record. That somehow gave me comfort, and am looking forward to a fresh start (with the fences) next year.

Miss Jordan has begun to verbalize her interpretation of the world in her own words. It is simply amazing how many words she has in her vocabulary at 16 months old. New words come effortlessly for her, and very often she will use them on her own shortly after. She picks up words people say in conversation, and repeats them. You can speak to her in complex sentances and she understands what you are describing or instructing her to do. She also has a very strong desire to do what you ask. "Put this in the garbage" results in her walking over to the garbage can and making the deposit. Amazing! Definately a new experience for me! I just can't emphasize how taken aback we are with her language abilities. I've begun to note the words she is verbalizing in a list in the the right hand column. I'm going to try to add to it regularly in an effort to demonstrate the vast number of words in her vocabulary. Watch to see it grow!

Jacob is ready to start school. Both grammi's did their part by showering him with lots of back to school clothes. He is definately set with pants, shirts, socks, underpants, shoes, jackets and the rest. I got him the book bag. He is excited through and through. Today, we all went for orientation. He dove right in with much pent up enthusiasm. There was a hint of nervousness when the parents had to step out of the rooom for a meeting. But the teacher quickly diverted his attention, and I doubt he looked back. I don't know as I quickly turned my back so he wouldn't see my tears :(. I'm going to miss my little guy. We won't be the three musketeers at lunch time any more. I'm going to miss our days together with only our own schedules to keep. I was exhausted after today. Luckily, we have a few days off before he goes back. How are we going to do this day after day???

Ok, enough of that. Growing pains can be the pits. I know all you seasoned parents out there are thinking "this is only the beginning". I know you are right, it doesn't make it any easier!

We had a nice visit to Lockport marking the end of summer (getting it in before school started). The boys got to fish in grampi's pond which was a hoot. They were pulling in fish that were smaller than most household aquarium fish faster than they could worm a hook. It was great fun, and a real confidence booster. They loved it. They also took a paddle around the pond which was equally exciting. Everyone showered Jacob with birthday gifts, and Aunt Molly made him a beach themed birthday cake. This was great fun and everyone enjoyed it.

From August 2009


From August 2009

In September, I have Happy Birthdays for:
5 - Joey Barone (1st!)
12 - Jacob Perry
18 - Fisher Tiernan
24 - Sally Page

To view August's photo album click here!

Enjoy!

Friday, July 31, 2009

July 2009 Update

CLICK HERE to check out Perry's July 2009 Photo Album!

From July 2009


In general, July's weather was very disappointing. Days of rain followed by cloudy, cool weather prevented us from making long range plans to do many of the summer time activities we wait all year to do. It's the kind of summer where you take each day as it comes. "Oh it looks like it will be a sunny afternoon, we better get to the beach now before it rains!" I bought an inflatable wading pool in May and it is still in the box! The sun rarely burned through the clouds long enough to dry the rain or inspire growth in the plants in my gardens. My tomato and pepper plants are still midgets - with no blossoms on the pepper plants to speak of.

Gardening has been a bit of a challenge this year. Between the kids, dogs, weather, our 'colder than everybody else' climate, and the wild life - we are finding it nearly impossible to produce much harvest, with just a few bright spots. The garlic and the onions did really well. The garlic heads are the largest to date. I pulled 70+ heads which will give us plenty to plant for next year. The onions look good and were easy to grow. Definatley will do those again next year. The lettuce and broccoli grew well but just as they were beginning to get tasty, the deer/rabbit/turkey (not sure which) sneaked in under the cover of night and snatched every last bit. They chewed every broccoli plant down to the stalk and every lettuce head to the ground. In addition to the cool weather stunting the growth of our tomatoes and peppers, I discovered today that our potatoes are likely not to be either. My experiment of covering the plants with hay rather than hilling them with dirt seemed to be a complete failure which caused a huge rotting mess! :(

As we go into August, we are going to try to fence off the gardens to salvage what we can for this year. If we get fences up, I'll plant some more Fall time crops, lettuce, spinach, more broccoli. If we don't, I'm not going to put another seed in the ground. Maybe for next year, we can fence in the back corner of the yard, otherwise I don't see the point!

Ok, onto more pleasant thoughts....BREATH....

From July 2009


From July 2009


We had a nice time at Shanelle & Michel Rainville's wedding. Jacob managed to perform his very important duty of being ring bearer in the ceremony. Mom and dad were nervous, but he managed quite well. His favorite part of the whole affair was his tuxedo. We put it on him a 1pm and I had to peel it (tie, vest, jacket and all) off of him at 10pm that night. He loved the tapping sound of the shoes and he loved dancing to the music at the reception. The Stone Mills Museum was a lovely facility. Lots of space for the kids to stretch out and explore. We camped out in the tent which was a little rocky given the weather. The first night was a little tough getting the kids used to the idea of sleeping in the tent, but by the second night they were ready to snuggle in allowing us all a fairly restful night. Thanks to Bonnie for hooking us up with an air mattress and a shower. What more could a girl want? Congrats to the newly weds - we wish you only the best.

From July 2009


We hooked up with Grammi, Grampi, Michael and Matthew at the Gifford Zoo in Syracuse. It was a really fast visit, and quite a challenge keeping track of the four kids. It was slightly hilarious - 3 adults on 4 kids, and it was a little up in the air at times on who was winning. Ever try hearding cats? You know what I'm talking about then. The kids had fun and the weather was warm - which was a nice break.

From July 2009


We said good bye to Gram Mayhew at her memorial service on the 18th. It was a nice service and Bonnie coached the kids into singing a few songs in her memory. The kids are Gram's legacy and it was nice touch. She will be missed by many, and forgotten by nobody.

From July 2009


In spite of the weather, the kids and I have done our fair share of swimming. We missed only a day or 2 of swimming lessons due to inclimate weather. One day it was 54 and the water was 62. The kids still went in. Jacob is doing a fantastic job. His progress in the first few weeks is incredible. He jumps off the end of the dock with no help, he puts his face in, and he attempts the front and back floats. He is willing to take instruction from the teacher which makes the whole experience a lot more pleasant for everyone. At the same time, Jordan thinks she is one of the bigs kids. She sits along side the rest of them and kicks her feet in the water. She climbs up onto the dock, and jumps off - again and again. I put the floaty belt on her and she kicks and floats in the water. She just loves it - and it is a lot of fun to take her. When she isn't swimming, she is playing in the water and sand with her shovels and buckets. She charms the spectators with her smiles, and tries to make friends with the other boys and girls on the beach. Such a joy!

Stephen was able to come to lessons during his vacation. We squeezed in a cook out at the park (before it rained). We were very busy during his vacation. We made a list of items we wanted to accomplish, and worked very hard to accomplish them. We managed to get through quite a few and had some fun along the way. We sold the sail boat! It happened without a lot of fanfare, and we incorporated a visit to the St. Lawrence River.

That's all I've got for now. Looking forward to a great month with Alice and Bill. They arrive on the 8th and will be with us until the 27th. This is our last month with Jacob before he becomes a school boy. I will be busy with back to school shopping and all the rest. He is pumped and so are we, though I'm sure a little apprehensive when the big day arrives. Well enough about that now. You'll hear more about that next month! Happy Birthday Uncle Dave! Happy First Anniversary Teresa & Bill! Take care, Laura

Saturday, July 4, 2009

We have a Follower!

I'm thrilled to announce that Living the Perry Life has its very own Follower! Following is a common acitivity in the blogosphere and is a yard stick for measuring a blog's popularity. I have casually encountered the subject in the past, and began following a blog more as an experiment than anything several months ago.

Much to my surprise and delight, I noticed a few days ago that we had a follower. Upon reading more about this, I was encouraged to write this post and encourage all my readers to become followers. Like so many other activities on the web, building a community is just a part of the experience. If you are so inclined, click to become a follower on the button in the right sidebar. You'll see our one follower looks lonely and needs company!

For those who aren't sure about all this following business, click to learn more.

New Look

I am very excited about a new discovery I made today. As you arrived here today, you may have noticed the new look we have taken on. In previous months, I have changed the colors of the blog's backgrounds, text and titles - but with some limitation. I often felt frustrated with the fact that I was unable to change the two large spaces on either side of the posted text. I always suspected there was a way to post a customized background, and today I finally figured out how. Like a kid just learning to ride a bike, I'm tickled to find the site 'hot bliggity blog' that offers free blog backgrounds (see button in right sidebar). They have dozens of charming backgrounds, which will allow me to change on a monthly or seasonal basis. Look for more charming viewing in the future. The Internet offers limitless possiblities, the bottleneck is in the time one has to search them all out!

Tuesday, June 30, 2009

She walks!

To view the June 2009 photo album, click here.

After much anticipation and a lot of hard work, our girls finally took their first steps.







First, Jordan decided that this crawling business was for the birds. I think she finally got sick of the dirty knees, getting trampled by the dogs and having to look up all the time. Just like the posters depicting man's journey through evolution, she became erect, stood on two legs and started putting one foot in front of the other with 100% independance. After a few shaky days, she was off and running LITERALLY! The transformation inside of one week is mind boggling. Now that she's been at it for almost three weeks, it would seem as if she has been doing this for months and months. AMAZING! We can see her improvement day by day. Tonight, she walked along side Stephen as he rolled the garbage cans out to the end of our driveway. Last week she couldn't make it to the end of the driveway with me as I held her hand! Again, AMAZING!



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Next it was our neice Kalyn's turn to make her deput as a highschool graduate. Even though we weren't there to see her take those first steps, Uncle Mike provided the photographic proof that she she walked confidently across the stage to take what was rightfully hers - her diploma. Her plans include college at Methodist U in Fayette, NC with the help of a scholarship to play college softball. Her parents are extremely proud, and I understand a little sad to see her go. It certainly will be exciting to watch her continue to grow.

In spite of a cool, and rainy June, summer has come to the North Country. Even though the air feels cool, its warm enough for shorts - so I guess it's not that cool. The evenings are long enough to go outside after dinner for a little horseplay before showers and bedtime. Man, I wish we could have more of that! We had a nice visit from Uncle Mike, and the weather cooperated for an outdoor campfire and sleep out. Daddy and Jake slept out in a tent, while mommy, Jordan and Uncle Mike enjoyed the comforts of home inside. Jake loved it, and Stephen loved it because Jake loved it so much. The gardens are coming along. I've started cutting lettuce and pulling green onions. We've hilled up the potatoes once, and I trimmed the blossoms from the garlic. Tomato plants have been staked and tied, beans have sprouted and the broccoli heads will start to appear any day now.

The month ended on a very sweet note. Jake, Jordan and I met a girlfriend from highschool and her family at the Paul Smith's VIC. I hadn't seen Kristen (Wilson) Updegrove since before graduation (17 yrs ago). We reconnected on Facebook and she mentioned that her family vacations in Lake Placid. We worked out the details and it turned out to be a wonderful treat. She and her husband have a beautiful family and it was great fun getting to know them, and catching up with Kristen all at the same time.

We have lots in store for July. National holidays, weddings, vacations, camping, swimming lessons, picnics, boating, summer projects and other appointments have my calendar completely cluttered up. Not a bad list of To Do's if you ask me. Happy Birthday goes out to Aunt Julie, Grandma Kolb, Mattie-moo, and Jeremiah Howard, and Happy 9th Anniversary to Stephen and me. Hope you all get out and enjoy the sunshine. Take care.

To view the June 2009 photo album, click here.

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Boat For Sail

Just in time for summer, this 15' Newport beauty is in 'ready to launch' condition. You'll have no problem reaching your favorite waterway with this trailer. Sailboat has a zippy disposition and is great fun for a day sail. Package includes sloop rigging, jib & main sales and trailer. Asking $1,000 Or will trade for 2 tandem Kayaks Or comparable offer. Contact (315) 265-4233. Boat viewable by roadside or by appointment in Parishville, New York.






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Thursday, June 25, 2009

Close encounters with the wild kind

Mrs. Manning invited us to share a precious moment with Jake and the rest of us one Spring morning in June. This fawn decided to take a cat nap in her back yard. First spotted by Mr. Manning as he let his dogs out in the morning, the fawn laid curled up there for hours. As we made our way towards it, the fawn hardly flinched a muscle for several minutes. At first sight, it looked to me like a large cat curled up in the grass. Jake didn't have any reservations. He stomped right up to it, as if it was one of grammi's baby farm animals. Just before it came into reach, the fawn decided he'd had enough and teetered off into the woods. Enjoy a clip of the video I captured!









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Friday, June 19, 2009

Summer Reading

I promised myself I would read this summer in place of watching reruns of last season's prime time TV. There have been 2 books on my nightstand since just before Jordan was born (yes, more than 12 months now) and I decided to tackle them first.

The lighter of the two turned out to be an absolute treat. "A Northern Light" by Jennifer Donnelly (Amazon.com permalink http://amzn.com/0152053107) is dubbed a young adult novel, but I enjoyed its light, uncluttered language with a clear description of tougher times than any of us can remember. The book is set in the Adirondacks with descriptions of the hotels and great camps that we fantisize about still today. A subplot is based on a real murder mystery whichs adds authenticity to the whole experience. I feel that all women can identify with the lead character, Mattie Gokey, as she faces the rest of her life with the decisions she makes at sixteen. I purchased two copies of this book from a craft show at Clarkson. The author's mother was a vendor at the show, and I felt a connection with it's title and cover almost immediately. I gave one copy to Alice for a xmas gift, and the other waited patiently for me to get to. Now that I've finished it, I'm going to pass it on to my Grandma Roth. She doesn't know it's coming, I think she'll enjoy it, as well.

It's good to be reading again. With all the hustle bustle, it seems to be one of the first habits I let go (writing being a close second) when faced with constrained time and energy. I'm going to start on the second book while the momentum is strong, and I am hoping to share my reactions to it at its conclusion. Stay tuned...

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

warning :)

This came from my mom and I thought it was hilarious given Jacob’s upcoming assignment!  Enjoy!

 

Children in Church

 

A little boy was in a relative's wedding. 

 As he was coming down the aisle, he would take two steps,

stop, and turn to the crowd.

    While facing the crowd, he would put his hands up like claws and roar.

     So it went, step, step, ROAR, step, step, ROAR, all the way down the aisle.

As you can imagine, the crowd was near tears from laughing so hard

by the time he reached the pulpit.

When asked what he was doing, the child sniffed and said,

"I was being the Ring Bear."

 

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Great Job Kalyn!

Late breaking news!  Kalyn headlines the Section III win write up.  Check it out at http://highschoolsports.syracuse.com/news/article/5903977509169772169/liverpool-wins-class-aa-softball-title/  We are so proud of you! 

 

Friday, June 5, 2009

Update for May 2009

To view the photo album from May 2009, click here

The weather was slow to warm in May. Bound and determined to expand my gardening space, we built four more raised beds - this time trying the Square Foot Gardening Method complete with manufactured growing medium and the whole bit. The concept is simple. Condense the amount of space you need to grow things by utilizing every square foot according to the plants growing needs. The raised bed gives the plants a little extra warmth, and we fill the boxes with 1/3 peat moss, 1/3 vermiculite, 1/3 compost. It's a concept we've been experimenting with the last few years, and have decided it's the only way to go with our northern climate and limited space.

I really pushed to have everything planted 'on time' or by Memorial Day. When the big day arrived, there was frost in the forecast so I waited a few more days before sticking the last of the tomatoe and pepper plants in. We had another week of cool days which didn't help anything, but nothing died and they are just standing by waiting for warm air in order to take off. I still have things to plant - basil, celery, yellow squash, beens, pumpkins and the rest of the annual seedlings that I started which I have to say were a collosal dissapointment. A lot of work for a very small return. I guess we are all a little spoiled by the gorgeous plants you can buy from the green house. Probably just do that next year. I am very pleased with the vegetable seedlings and will definately do that again next year. We have plenty of tomatoe and peppers coming, and the potatoes will be a hoot as well.

The kids 'help' when they can. Otherwise they are busy playing in the new sand box Stephen made for them. It is such a joy to watch the two of them play, and what is really nice is that Jordan can play in the sand box without eating the sand (a feat Jacob did not accomplish until he was at least 3). She forgets once in a while and slips in a taste, but nothing like her brother would have done at her age. They play really well together and then she lets me know when she's had enough. The other day she actually crawled to the stroller and started to climb in - as if to say "Ok I'm ready for our walk now".

We've been exploring the great outdoors. We are learning about butterflies, bumble bees and humming birds. This is the first season Jacob really seems to grasp their being there and has an interest in their activity. We have a hummingbird feeder near the butterfly porch and he has become keenly aware of their comings and goings - to the point that he is almost able to recognize them as male or female. Pretty cool! We've been walking to the local beaver flow a couple of times a week. This is fun for Jacob because he can throw rocks in the water. It is fun for mommy, because we can see the brook trout making their way up stream in the water that runs along the roadside. I try to point them out to him, and he says he sees them - but I don't think he sees them. He would much rather I let him run in the water which I have refrained from doing since I saw there are fish in there. We've captured a frog, and a really large ugly black bug and viewed a snake up close. I hate snakes, Stephen hates snakes - and guess what Jake likes snakes. This should get interesting! He is also over his shyness around worms, and now talks to them as if they are pets. Cracks me up!

Jordan is still teetering. She wants to walk and she can walk, but I think her little legs and feet lack the strength and confidence to take care of the rest. She has spurts throughout the day where she takes several steps at a time. Then the rest of the day she makes her way across the floor like the baby on the Simpsons. I'm still fine with it, but Stephen and Mrs. Manning get really anxious about her walking status. So much so, they have Jake saying "Look mommy, she is doing her walking part!" No idea what walking part is, but that's Jake. She is getting so great at expressing herself. She waves and says "bye bye", she says 'haye" to greet us, she points to her belly and says "beye, beye, ..." She says momma, dadda, and a bunch of other things. I think she is much more verbal than Jake at this age. I guess its due to all the talking that goes on around here now vs when he was this age.

We had a great day at the park in Liverpool with Mom, Dad, Michael and Matthew. Jacob was talking about going to "the Syracuse park" again for days and nights, until we went to see THOMAS!!! Thomas the Train was in North Creek and I didn't do a whole lot of prep with him, just in case something prevented us from going or so he wouldn't get distracted from the other things we had going on. Consequently I think he was in awe the entire day and for days after. There was a train ride, and he got meet Sir Topham Hat and they had Thomas trains set up for the kids to play with. He was in heaven! The weather was nice and we all had a great time.

I know we are well into June now. Dad's birthday is Monday and Father's Day follows shortly after. I am so thankful the days have warmed this week - it was actually warm enough to put water in the new water table Jordan got from Patty & Marie for her birthday. They both love it. Jordan thought it was a wadding pool at first, but she has gotten better about that and they both love suttling in the water.

Its supposed to be a beautiful weekend. Stephen is off to work bee at Stony Brook tomorrow, and we are going to meet him in there for a trail side lunch and wild life exploration. Hopefully the bugs won't be too thick. Poor Jordan already looks like she has the measles! Hope everybody has a great month and we'll look forward to checking in with you again in July!

Saturday, May 2, 2009

April Perry Blog Update

To all those interested, there are updates and new pictures available now at http://adkmountainside.blogspot.com/.  Hope you enjoy, and keep the comments coming.  We enjoy the feedback.  –The Perry’s

 

April Showers Bring May Flowers

Click to see April 2009 Photo Album

It amazes me how our landscape changes over the course of 30 days, and April really pushes the envelope. The month greeted us with 4 inches of snow, and by its close we are getting ready to cut grass. The month has offered warm balmy days, alongside bitter cool days. All the same, the outlook has turned from brown to green. Buds are peaking. birds are chirping, worms are squirming and green stems are emerging. How very exciting!

April was Jordan's month. We were very busy getting ready for her 1st birthday - shopping, planning, practicing, and cleaning. Then we were busy celebrating with 3 separate events. The festivities started with a visit from Grammi & Grandpa Page. They brought a cozy coup and we had pizza. Jordan took it all in stride, enjoying it as she does most other things. Jacob was ever anxious to help blow candles and open presents. To think a year ago, we couldn't pay him to open a present. We again celebrated her special day among the four of us with a cake and candles (yes we did the mess all over again). Finally, we wrapped things up with a brunch in Lockport where we again gave her a cake to dive in to. All of this was lots of fun for mom - as I got to dress her up that many times.

We enjoyed seeing everyone in WNY. Matthew turned 2 and we celebrated with a wind whipped back yard party at David & Molly's. Their place looks great, and it was a blast to watch the kids play.

The Easter bunny brought a bike to Jacob. Since he could walk, he has had a fascination with bikes. Every time we see a bike parked by a store he wants to climb on. Every time we see someone riding a bike, he gawks until they are out of site. I have been avoiding the entire outdoor section of our Walmart for months so to prevent the tantrums that result from wanting to ride the bikes in the store. He has gotten to be proficient at peddling (both tricycle and tractor), and the MacWilliams girls both ride bikes. So mommy thought it was time for Jacob to have his own bike. Wrong! It was not love at first site. The new addition was greeted with tears and screaming about not wanting to get on. We recovered from that, and are comfortable with pushing it but the tractor is still the favorite. I can rarely get him to take it with us on our walks. We took it to the park, and he can ride it on the asphalt there. Couple times around, and he is done. He is much more interested in other things than that bike right now. Stay tuned to see how that changes over the course of the summer.

Jordan is growing in leaps & bounds. We are calling her Cathy because of the likeness to her aunt. It is uncanny. As much as we think Jacob looks like Uncle Mike, now we think Jordan looks like Aunt Cathy. It was pretty much the general consensus when we were in Lockport last week, that neither of my kids bare any physical resemblance to me or my side of the family whatsoever! Jordan is talking all the time - constant babble is coming out of her mouth, with the occasional 'mamamama' and the latest 'cou' which sounds a lot like 'cool'. She repeats it back to you which is a lot of fun. She is not walking under her own power, which is causing all kinds of stress for dad. I'm fine with it; because I know all too well what happens after they start walking on their own.

I signed Jacob up for Headstart for the fall. We visited the classroom early in April and for a lot of reasons I believe it will be a great thing for him. I'm sure he will teach them a thing or two, but there will be lots of opportunity for him to learn from all of them which is what is best for him.

We are digging into the gardens this year - big time! I've got dozens of tomato and pepper plants coming in the basement. We are building more raised beds. I have onion seedlings and seed potatoes en route. And we aren't having any babies or running for any offices this year, so I should be able to stick with it for the season :). The bounty should be plenty.

Lots of birthdays and celebrations in May. Most important is Mother’s Day. We love you mom and grandmom’s! Happy Birthday Uncle Mike, Alice and me! Happy Anniversary Chas & Mike, and Paul & Patsy. Grandma Mayhew would have been 93 on the 7th – we miss you Gram!

Click to see April 2009 Photo Album